Parent meeting at school the wonderful speech on behalf of parents

 Distinguished school leaders, teachers, parents:
Hello!
Thank the parents, the school will be held. So that we all parents have an opportunity to meet and communicate! We come from different places, have different identities. doing different jobs: some worked in the office - some of them may reside in leadership positions; some in the sea to try their hand - some of them may be wealthy; some laid-off at home - some of them might be worried about for a living; some farming in the countryside. sunrise and sunset - I just looked at it. today late for the meeting. Most of the parents from the countryside, they are definitely doing farm work for a while only after landing feet, put on new shoes came in (laughs)! In order to increase the child's nutrition, some of them mentioned several kilograms of apples, some carrying a cooler of - I guess there must be a only Dunlan the gods of earth, poor parental love ah! (Applause.)
but no matter what we do. sitting here, we are all equal. because we all have a common goal - Succeed, Wang F rife; all have a common identity - the hearts of children, parents, teachers, parents eyes. So today, I would like to take this opportunity to parents on how to do and how when parents talk with you something from the heart .
my children than children with those with good academic performance, there are many deficiencies; I compared with all parents, there are many gaps, so I want to say. can not be considered experience. can only be regarded feelings. If you can cause resonance. I will feel a great honor.
as a middle-aged. We meet with friends. family reunion time. talk is probably the largest children's learning problems, talking about, there The exultant, relish, said the ownership of this information see their children more information like this is very obedient, and some shook his head sighing in vain. complain that their children do not cute; I do not know all of you parents is how to treat this problem, I personally think that children hear their words, good is not clever, and very incompetent parents said that relationship because there is no unruly children, only not good parents!
I say, some people may disagree: In order to prove that I view is wrong, they may cite the following examples -
a pair of couples who lived in rural areas, never deliberately care and discipline over their son, but eventually pool their son enrolled in the Tsinghua University as When asked their tutoring experience, the father replied: )
while a couple of economic conditions are very good, docile and obedient children, not only take care of their daily diet. and whom to hire tutors, in short, on the hardware and software together, so that the child obsessed with reading, obtain key universities, but the child has fallen off the end.
I do not deny it. the above conditions must exist. but this is only a special case, this particular phenomenon. just as we usually talk about it: do not intentionally grow flowers send flowers. unintentional positive outcomes. but universal law is: serendipitously hard lined, intends to grow flowers and plants until hair. competent and responsible parents of children, their children are generally docile - if the child does not obey the general incompetence with their parents, the child care enough about
So how can parents be a competent and parents do?
first. To love a child
Gorky said that she loves children. It is not even a hen know to do. each Bit parents. all know that love their children. But in the current social context. how do we love children? I personally think that should be love for the child, into a kind of responsibility for the content of education and child education relatives, to do their duty to society, we may not go down in history. may not make earth-shattering results, then things start from the side, the most easy thing to do from the start,
start teaching children right from ! if every parent to do. can put their child into a family benefit, benefit society, is to the child, but also a responsibility on society to do.
I recently read an article entitled called longevity in. but you re filial, they will walk in front of you - you can only accompany their parents a ride; you like your children. time dream of his own body for their shelter, but you re tall, with a total One day you have to go in their face - you can only accompany the child a ride, process, we train them to hurry to marry. money is the worldly possessions, fame and fortune is a thing of the past, dedicated to cultivate a child, that is, the deepest love for them! (Applause.)
Second, be familiar with the child.
can not step into the same river twice. the world can not have the same child. from the character training for children and some within. some lively, some low-key, and some publicity, and some hi quiet. Some Love move, some impatient, some calm; from psychological terms, and some strong, can withstand the humiliation and stress, and some fragile. fix may go to the extreme, some self-confidence. some inferiority complex: the ability from the interest say. Some broad range of interests, breadth of knowledge. Some interest in a single, narrow range of knowledge. Some strong thinking in images, and some logical thinking, strong; from the family environment, and some well-off family, and some financial difficulties happy hh The family is similar. unhappy family is unhappy in its own. Every parents. to focus as much as possible, familiar with their children. good at exploration, summed up the child's growth pattern, the only way. to individualized education, the right medicine . Targeted we should all understand that we communicate with their children. in addition to his son, daughter, mother, mother-daughter relationship, but also should be friends relationship between brothers and sisters! We should understand their children's ambitions, hobbies, HI angry dirge, should communicate frequently with their children and exchange. should be aware of each child's test scores, class subject teachers should remember the phone number and often keep in touch with them, should always observe the child's psychological, physiological changes in hh If you did not do this, we can not be considered good parents and parents!
Third, high-tolerance kids
enter first grade children. is in the physical development of the ideological character of the gradual maturity and life and values of the basic shape. During this period, every child has the potential problem of one kind or another. As a parent, we should remember. perhaps incomplete is perfect for children. We should a little more understanding. less complaining; more tolerant and less demanding. must not demand perfection. great men make mistakes, parents make mistakes we do, then why do we demand that their children always right? Our responsibility is to guide children They face up to the error, analysis error, as few mistakes. Since the road of life can not be easy. so their children can not be successful times. We should guide them to correctly deal with success and failure, good times and bad. to achieve success not proud. failure is not discouraged, good times do not get carried away, the face of adversity the way talent is not complaining million pieces, what kind of society in the future talents are needed, your child will obtain what kind of college. What kind of career is not in important, it is important to let their children are aggressive, responsibility, compassion (Applause.)
Fourth, to guide their children
things are difficult, reap, different teaching methods, will receive a different effect: we get along with the children day and night. their words and deeds will they play a subtle role. we can not is a child in education, their own time for the action to another. If we are preoccupied with their own, but require that children tolerant of others: our own abuse of the elderly, but require that children honor their parents; never read books and newspapers of our own, but requires the child to seriously study; our own poker gambling, but require that children do not play games online; our money recklessly, are asking that the child is absolutely impossible hh thrift receive a good education results.
people in society are now divided into three types: First, a difference of Homo habilis, and second, do certain things for good people Third, do everything the bad guys. your child may not become an artist. but do not let him do everything the bad guys! We will do anything to guide him on that. at school to be a learning life, learning knowledge, learn to exercise, learn the aesthetic a good student; at home to be a polite, capable and enthusiastic boy; in DU area to be a law-abiding and regulations, observe social ethics of the good citizen!
Finally, I wish you both the parents can become a know love chicken, but also good care of competent hen chicks! (long applause)